By André Alphonso, Managing Director, Forum India
A few weeks ago, in New Delhi, I happened into the company of one of the leading golf coaches for professional golfers in the Asian tour: Kel Llewellyn, an Australian who coaches several well known pro golfers on the world circuit. I asked him what he focuses his coaching on with his golfers. He replied that at least 80 percent of his coaching effort goes into getting the mind right and prepared for tournament play. Kel explained that, in the pressure-cooker environment of a golf tournament, skill is less important than getting your thinking right. One poor shot can often snowball into a poor performance on a hole, a round, and possibly a tournament. According to Kel, the best golfers are able to recover: in the pressure of a golf tournament, they are able to correct their thinking through their self-talk or internal monologue.
Anyone who has ever played golf knows this is not an easy task. Average golfers are not able to adjust their thinking sufficiently when they are faced with adversity—they castigate themselves and over-think every shot they take. It’s a vicious cycle of thinking that repeats in other rounds and other tournaments.
There are many parallels between golfing and leadership in the current economic times. Leaders all over the world are facing more pressure today:
· They must still achieve results (a task more difficult to execute than it was a year ago).
· They must keep increasingly demanding customers satisfied and loyal in a marketplace in which competitors’ prices are plummeting.
· They must keep their people motivated and focused when their people’s friends and associates have just been laid off.
· After waves of cost cutting in their organizations, they must come up with ways to cut costs even further.
· They are continually inundated with headlines and sound bites about company closures, massive layoffs, and pundits’ predictions of continued economic doom and gloom.
Leaders who have made the cut in their organizations find themselves in a pressure cooker reminiscent of the final round of a golf tournament. If you are one of these leaders, consider your self-talk and the way you explain adverse events to yourself. Answer the following questions in the context of the adverse situation you may be finding yourself in. Do you think that:
· You have little or no control over your current situation?
· Someone or something else is going to have to fix the problem?
· The problem’s impact on you is pervasive and long lasting?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are in danger of falling into a vicious-cycle thinking pattern—a thinking pattern that will not work for you, your team, your organisation, or your customers. As a leader you will be sub-optimising your impact.
So you may ask “How do I break this pattern?” Forum has found using four simple tactics effectively will make your self-talk work for you rather than against you:
· Control: What control do I have in this situation? What proof is there that it is completely out of my control? What are the hidden opportunities in this situation, and how can I use them to turn it around?
· Ownership: How can I take ownership and improve this situation? How can I stop wasting time on blaming and/or complaining? What can I personally do to overcome this?
· Scope: What is the scope of this situation? What aspects of my life will it really impact? How realistic is this?
· Time-span: How much time will this situation span? What real proof is there that the ramifications of the situation will be long lasting? What does the evidence really tell me?
How do you practice these tactics? Try them out the next time you find yourself failing on the golf course!

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